Tongue First: After Hours
Want a little more chaos, connection, and queer conversation?
After Hours is our cozy little corner of the internet where the conversations go deeper, the behind-the-scenes moments get messier, and the community gets even more personal.
Join us for bonus content, early access, extended conversations, exclusive updates, and the kind of late-night energy that doesn’t always make it into the final edit.
Come get comfortable. We saved you a spot. 💜
About Tongue First
Tongue First is an unfiltered, queer podcast hosted by Aubrey “Siren” Jones and Wendy Reeves.
Each week, they — alongside special guests — dive into relationships, identity, intimacy, sapphic life, internet culture, and the messy realities of being human. Heartfelt, chaotic, and sometimes completely unhinged, Tongue First feels like the late-night conversation you never want to end.
Tongue First Merch Preview
Welcome to the first sneak peek at future Tongue First merch. These are early concepts and mockups — not official products just yet — and over the next month we’ll be using community feedback to help decide what launches first.
Every piece was designed to feel like an extension of the world we’re building together: queer, cozy, emotionally honest, slightly chaotic, and deeply human.
If all goes according to plan, merch pre-orders will begin in late June. Until then, explore the concepts, pick your favorites, and help us decide what becomes real first. 💜
Tongue First Hoodie
Cozy, loud, queer, and very hard to ignore. The Tongue First Hoodie features our full-color podcast artwork front and center, bringing together the mics, tongues, chaotic energy, and the faces behind the conversations.
Printed on a Gildan hoodie, it’s made to be the kind of comfortable layer you grab for podcast binges, coffee runs, Pride weekends, late-night hangs, or anytime you want to wear your queer chaos proudly.
Available in Black, Purple, White, or Tie-Dye — whether you want the artwork to pop against classic black or you’re committed to maximum color.
Featuring:
Official Tongue First podcast artwork
Gildan hoodie
Unisex fit
Front graphic
Black, Purple, White & Tie-Dye options (Tie Dye +$25)
Designed for maximum cozy and minimum heterosexual explanation
A podcast where queer questions meet honest chaos.
For emotional support purposes only, obviously.
This heavyweight canvas tote combines dry queer humor with cozy indie café aesthetics — the kind of bag you throw over your shoulder before wandering through bookstores, farmer’s markets, tattoo appointments, or emotionally devastating brunch conversations.
Available tan canvas, featuring custom line-art illustration details and design elements inspired by the Tongue First universe.
Twenty episodes in, and this one might be the most quietly powerful yet. Dalyss Saari — artist, mother, and American expat currently living in Birmingham, England — sits down with Siren and Wendy for a conversation that moves seamlessly between real trauma and real joy, sometimes in the same sentence.